Hey Dave,
to use a touch probe means closing an electrical circuit by making a probe mounted in or on the milling motor (usually a bit in this case) and a probe plate move toward each other until they touch. If you use the Makita hand trim router, which is a Class II device, which means it is double insulated and does not require to be earthed, then it does not matter which pin of the probe input is wired to the magnet probe and which is wired to the touch plate. It was even reported that some touch probes were wired the other way around than some other specimen; it made no difference when using the double insulated hand trim router.
In fact the magnet probe is only required because the hand trim router is double insulated and not earthed. You need to attach one wire with a magnet to the trim router’s shaft because it is isolated, and the other to the touch plate, to finally have a circuit which can be closed at the moment your bit in the router touches the touch plate.
As soon as you replace the hand trim router by a spindle, which means an induction motor driven by a VFD, which obligatorily needs to be grounded in order to prevent motor bearing currents which can easily destroy your bearings if the spindle isn’t grounded correctly, you already have ground on all metal parts of the spindle, including the milling bit. Therefore you will only need one wire then, the one that leads to the touch plate (the function of the other wire is then already present through the grounding wires of the spindle, the VFD and the Onefinity controller). Note that the single wire to the touch plate must then obligatorily be connected to the PROBE_IN pin of J10 connector, which is the lower pin in the picture below (alternatively you can also connect the touch plate to pin 22 of the 25-pin I/O port). Should the touch probe not work after upgrading to a (correctly earthed) spindle, you got to know that some touch probes have the wires the other way around, so in this case you simply got to swap the wire coming from the touch probe so that it connects to the lower pin on socket (red in image below).